So I'm a little curious what people's goals are in a relationship. I'm starting to come to terms with mine and realize there's a very limited amount of people who want the same thing as I do.

I find casual relationships boring and stagnant after awhile and can't date multiple people at once. But I also don't want the typical serious relationship of settling down, having kids, owning a home together...none of that interests me either.

I'd much rather get to know someone deeply, share meaningful conversations and explore being better people together. I'd rather not be stuck in the same place forever either, which isn't always appealing. I'm also female so people tend to assume I do want the kids and white picket fence ideal, and when I say I don't they claim I will change my mind.

What's everyone's ideal relationship? Casual, serious or somewhere in-between?

Edit: thank you all for taking the time to reply! I've been at work so haven't been able read everything yet, but I'm enjoying your insights and shared experiences. You're all helping me gain a new perspective! Also you sound like pretty great people, I hope everyone meets the person that they deserve.

Edit 2: seriously, thank you so much guys. You've made me feel not so alone tonight. My mood as improved drastically because of you all. Keep being the amazing people you are!