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Quantity or Quality?
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How carefully do you choose whom you will go on a date with? Do you initially say yes to most treating it like a numbers game, or do you have very strict criteria for selecting a potential date?

Recently I worked up the nerve to ask out a woman. I hesitated because she didn't meet some of my criteria, but after I did it I was glad I did and was really hoping she would say yes (she didn't). Now that I think back to it, the last woman I pursued was back in February. I don't want to treat dating like a numbers game. I feel like I'm a unique enough guy that it would be a waste of time (e.g. I don't watch sports or engage in much pop culture). But I also think two attempts in a year is pretty sad, because then I've put too much hope on the possibility.

I'm open to your selective screening methods or other suggestions. I've definitely got to be more proactive.

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Quality always !

I have no criterias at all, talk with a lot of people and they skim themselves really quick...

I don't expect anything but don't bother myself to get over little things

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