I (35M) haven't been on a date in years. Focused on my (admittedly blue collar) career, plus working exclusively nights, plus my normal enduring insecurities, plus a very rocky end to my last FWB situation that pushed the last of my self confidence into the shadows. It hasn't been great.

But, I have some friends in my social circles who are women. Through Facebook comments etc, one of these ladies (mid 30s, married with children) and I realized we both wanted to see a musical that is in town this month and made the plans to go together. And this week is finally the week. She sent me a picture of the dress she is going to wear and I have since bought a suit (I needed one anyway).

In the meantime, she has separated from her husband and is in the process of divorcing him (abusive, physically and emotionally).

So...it's not a romantic date, it's a friend date, and I know nothing is likely to happen between us, and I wouldn't be a good friend if I let it. But DAMN if I'm not excited to have a night on the town with a beautiful woman at my side!

...pation!