Does anyone else wonder why the focus on activity in most dating profiles? Am I the only one that feels vaguely threatened by people continuously listing all the things the do (they all love the outdoors) and insisting that they live an active busy life? I like to relax. I like to sit in one place and read or browse the internet, learning things as I go. It feels like everyone feels obligated to be frenetically engaged in life and they want someone to join them in some non-stop activity driven exercise. I feel judged. I feel like I must be boring. But I could never keep up with 80% of them. And what is the obsession with travel? Who has the budget for all of these excursions to Europe and other touring? I have a sneaking suspicion that these lists are really wish lists of things they would do if they had someone to pay for them. It is all very daunting. I'm looking for someone to share my life, such as it is, and accept my company in daily life as satisfying enough. Do I really have to be an athlete, tour director and wallet for someone's dream list?