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Half rant, half serious: at what point do we just give up on attractiveness?
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I’m starting to think that finding a long term partner would be a lot easier if I (54m) just stopped giving attractive women a higher priority over others. I know it’s shallow. I also know that we are all aging over time and that part doesn’t bother me. I do want to grow old with somebody in the long term. My issue is that I would like to begin our relationship at the point where there is strong mutual attraction. This is starting to feel unattainable. It seems like I often get into lopsided situations where one person has much stronger feelings and attraction than the other person. I’ve been on both sides of it and I’m not sure what the solution is. Is it just me?

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Haha yea they are right up there with the ones who claim to be "good guys who have a lot to offer" when they offer being drunk/high, possessive and aggressive, can't carry on a conversation if it isn't about sex lol

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