I’m 47 years old. I’m a man and I have a foot fetish. I have always had a fetish for legs and feet and nylons since I was a teenager just starting to date. I was raised by a number of women who were in the professional work in the 80s and 90s and they always wore nylons, so it became a thing.

I’m also a voyeur, meaning I love to watch. I enjoy watching a woman put on make-up, great dressed, bathe, and even have sex. It’s not a humiliation thing or a BDSM thing (though I do enjoy roleplay with BDSM as the theme).

Sadly, I have found when you’re kinky at my age, dating is tough. You want to be open and honest so no one is shocked or surprised, but you don’t want to be too out there to scare off potential dates. So, what is the trick? How do you find potential kink-friendly matches who aren’t some kind of lazy sugar baby or findomme just looking for free money? Seems every dating app now is full of them. So, what’s the trick?