Recently, a lot of my (42 F) online interactions have gone like this: - we match - I send an initial message based on profile information like “I see you like x. I like x too. Where’s your favorite place to get x?” And typically something generic too like “do anything fun in the beautiful weather this past weekend?” Incase they don’t actually want to talk about x. - I get an immediate response saying “this platform isn’t great for communication can we switch to snap/kik/discord/text/etc?” - I ghost

Honestly, if you’re not comfortable with the technology, get off the site. I’m not giving you any of my contact information if you can’t even answer the questions that I asked you in an initial message. I understand those platforms are anonymous, but no, I’m not changing every social account that I have because you turn out to be a stalker. You get nothing—no additional pictures, no contact info, nothing except what’s in my profile—until at least 4 or 5 decent messages in. I’m not sure why these men would expect otherwise. Are they just fishing for something? If you’re a real person, I highly recommend avoiding this behavior.