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I 40(f) met a guy at a friend’s house party. We spent half of the party talking. I was interested, so my friend reached out to him. He never responded.
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I’m not sure what to make of this situation but here’s more context.

I was pleasantly surprised to meet a nice guy at my best friend’s house party (he’s her former coworker). There were a lot of couples there with their kids. This guy and I ended up talking for most of the party. We got to know a lot about each other and I was intrigued and a little smitten.

My friend wanted to help and I decided to put myself out there. She texted him a few days after the party with something along the lines of: my friend really enjoyed talking to you at the party. Would you be interested in getting to know her more?

It’s been a few days and he hasn’t responded to her. I’m really bummed. I don’t encounter single guys organically like this a lot. I also find it strange that there was no response at all, not even to politely say he’s not interested if that’s the case. I’m not sure what to make of it. Edit: Would you assume at this point he’s not interested? Why ignore the text completely?

EDIT: Thank so much for all of the responses! This is a great community. I’m slowly easing back into the dating field, so I know I’m going to keep learning along the way.

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