When it comes to OLD and you get a message, what does do you keep in shape mean exactly? what does what kind of shape are you in? Is it about exercising? Is it about being able to play golf or hike? Or is it about what does your body look like?

Do you still look for the same type of person, in looks, attitude, morals, beliefs, etc.? Or has it changed as you age? As you have aged, have you changed how you feel about sag, stretch marks, wrinkles, cellulite, squish bellies, being overweight, etc.?

I often misunderstand or don't grasp the nuances and take things one way and it was meant another. Then I felt dumb and just withdraw. I think as we age our tolerance for bs goes way down.