One of the key reasons why marriages and relationships end is because two people aren’t sexually compatible. They may never have been sexually compatible (and realize it later) or their sexuality evolves (one or both of them) such that they are no longer compatible

Either scenario can lead to infidelity which can lead to the relationship ending. So compatibility matters greatly for many.

I’ve read that many couples don’t talk much about their sex life. That further complicates matters. I know that’s not all couples but many people feel shame around sex or havee beliefs that drive their behaviour or lack of conversation.

Conventional dating apps do not allow sex to be discussed in your profile or in some apps not even in your communications with others. If sex is important to you, or very important to you, how do you convey your interest in sex when you are dating? If it’s not done in the app (which is not recommended imo), though it can happen.

Do you flirt? Do you bring it up after you’ve been dating awhile and have had sex?

People are looking for travel partners, someone that likes dogs as much as them, someone that is as independent as they are, or generous, or sexually compatible with them. When it comes to sexual compatibility, it’s not the only thing that matters. How much do you value sexual compatibility and how to you filter for it and when do you talk about it?

I think most people would agree that they don’t want to be in a sexless marriage or partnership. What do you do to find someone sexually compatible, because at the current rate, based on some subs, some aren’t even getting many dates.