I love this sub and some responses are pure gold. Sometimes a combination of an intriguing comment and username gets me curious, and I freely admit to digging into some profiles.

Thank you for the reminder to trust slowly, folks. I saw one of you has had Zoom calls with women, who at times have been "under-dressed." I know this because your response was to take screen shots and share them on pervy, exploitive subreddits.

With the state of the (dating) world full of unsolicited dick pics, slut shaming for women only, restricted access to health care for women, etc., it takes very little to set me off these days. I tend to give DO50 contributors extra credit that some definitely don't deserve.

What instinct makes a man screen shot a NSFW photo during a conversation with a woman they're getting to know and share it with a bunch of internet strangers on a sub called "big titty" or whatnot?!? I mean, this is a very real, human person you're taking to, and she is trying to get to know you in whatever way, and you share her nude pic, including her face?! After she trusts you enough to be a little frisky?!

You are the reason I have to work so hard to trust a man. And please, don't tell me "not all men." Enough men. It's hard to have fun and be wary at the same time.

Editing to add: this is not about sending photos. The choice to send a photo is just that, a choice, and the sender knows the risk. This is about my awareness that even during a video chat, someone might be recording or taking screen shots to share far and wide. Consider this a PSA from my naive self, I hadn't thought of this possibility.