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So Iāve been talking to this girl off and on for 3 months at college. we hung out and few times then weād make plans and she would cancel or have something come up so I would see her at parties mostly and weād talk most the party or talk for a minute and then sheād go with her friends but when I talked to her I would ask her why she cancels or is she even trying to talk to me truly and she would say she does want to talk and she would just say Iām playing games or that Iām talking to other girls and she doesnāt like that. But I try to tell her that Iām actually not talking to any other girls. I have a couple friends that are girls but Iām not talking to anybody else so the last party she kinda understood that and we talk for like an hour straight at the party and she hugged me before she left and then since then sheās been hugging me and touching me a lot everytime we hang out or sheāll rest her head on me for a second but then I talked to her before I left school to know where we stood and I asked her for her feelings and she said she doesnāt know and you can tell she was getting flustered or she just didnāt know how to explain her then she said she wants somebody to fit her life so i asked do you know want to be able to fit in your life and she said yeah so I asked do you want me in your future and she said yeah so I was ok well that tells me what I need so I left it at that. So I go home we talk here and there every other day or so, I asked to call her last week and we FaceTimed for a few hours and then I was talking to her sister to while we were on the phone just chilling and then she took a picture of me and her sister was making fun of her and then the girl Iām talking to was like āit was cute āthen the girl was telling her sister that I try to get her to talk about her feelings with me and then her sister was like āgood luck with that cause she never knows what she wantā which I kinda knew already. but then she was saying sheās tired and she said call me tomorrow when you get home from my workout so I was ok so I texted her when I got home and asked if she was awake cause I sent her a snap and she usually opens it in the morning but she didnāt and then I didnāt hear from her for like 2 hours after and she was like āyeah im awake I just have a headache so Iām laying in bedā so I was oh ok well I can you later if you want to get rid of your headache and she responded 2 hours later saying give me a sec cause I need to go help somebody with something so I was alright just call me later if you want if not like itās cool so then she had some family stuff going on and she texted me about it. I was confused by how she was saying it like I didnāt know if she was trying to say she canāt call or she just wanted to talk about it. So I was ok like āI get it. Youāre good handle whatās going on and if you need to talk Iāll be here or if you need space I can give it to you. You just let me know what you needā she left me on read so I was alright ima just step back from the situation so I didnāt talk to her for a couple days and she goes āwydā like two nights later and I was nothing really right now but wydā Nothing back from her So Iām like alright. I text her the next day cause I had a question for her sister and I didnāt want to just call her cause she goes to sleep early sometimes so I texted her like āare you awake still?ā Nothing again. The next day I call her just to check in and then she let it ring for awhile and then declined which is fine cause she might be busy but then she donāt call back or text back so Iām like I know you seen it and thereās just no communication and in the mean time she hasnāt really been snapping on Snapchat but like sheās done that since like the last week I was at college. But then also I posted something on my Snapchat last night and then she slid up and was like and she was playful making fun of it cause it was a funny thing so I went back and was playfully making fun of her and then nothing again.
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