Many people who have affections for a buddy feel compelled to make a big show of expressing their sentiments. However, this frequently causes awkwardness and backfires. It makes the other person feel uneasy. It puts them on the spot and is completely unnecessary.

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There's no need to express yourself verbally. First and foremost, they are quite likely already aware. If you want to ask them out, don't make it a huge issue. Simply asking them out on a date shows that you are interested in more than friendship. Choose an evening activity, such as supper or cocktails, that conveys romance and is not typical of a buddy hangout.

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If they refuse, you have an answer. It's a good idea to keep your distance till your sentiments diminish. It's dishonest to pretend you're content with friendship when you really want anything more.