DM me if you want more help but the essential premise of a date is to create a fun-filled romantic opportunity for sex to happen

This means getting to know her and connecting deeply by engaging her emotions

The way you do this is by letting her do 60-90% of the talking

Women love to talk about themselves. Really, all you gotta do is ask her questions. Make your questions fun questions she would enjoy answering

Take a genuine interest in her as a person and just avoid talking about yourself as much as possible

If she asks a question, give her a vague but playful answer, and then immediately reframe the convo with another question to get her talking and opening up again

When a woman feels safe to open up, she will feel more attracted to you

Like I said, a woman’s emotions need to be engaged for her to be physically intimate with you

So genuinely take an interest in her, and engage those emotions

Watch this, this, this, and this

All are videos about opening her up and asking good questions that get her interested in you

The guy in the video actually has a book that I highly recommend you read

Get the audio book called: How To Be A 3% Man By Corey Wayne bro. It’s good o’l fashioned dating advice that focuses on character and confidence building rather than shitty PUA gimmicks or manipulation. Will Change your life and help you master women once and for all

Don’t think that the videos are an adequate supplement to the book

You must listen to the book 10-15x and put in consistent practice like he says if you want to become a master

It’s a short easy read so not too difficult to rack up 10-15 reads

Finally, stop texting women

The phone is for setting dates. Period.

Not for getting to know each other

Texting a woman too much is the quickest way to lose her attraction

She needs to feel like she needs you more than you need her. She needs to feel like she’s way more into you than you are her

So give her that gift

It is a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear

So don’t focus on labels. Just focus on showing her a good time once a week on average. Don’t contact her anymore than that and let her be the one to bring up putting a label on things

If she has to earn putting a label on things, she’s going to feel that much more satisfied about entering a relationship with you

If she reaches out to you, assume it’s because she wants to see you

Set a date and get off the phone

For example if she sends a meme or asks a question, wait like 4 hours to reply and then respond with (answer the question first if she asked you one)

“Hey. Busy day but it’s great to hear from you. We should get together again. When are you free?”

Then let her respond and reply with:

“Great it’s a date. Gotta run but I’ll see you Friday @ 7pm”

And leave it at that

Don’t keep texting her

Only contact her once a week to schedule a date. Wait 4-5 days after the date to contact her about another date

If she reaches out first, it’s okay to go ahead and schedule a date b her then get off the phone asap

Continue to only reach out once a week unless she reaches out first, then it’s acceptable to plan the date

Another wise thing is if you do text, make sure you follow the Jumbotron test

Ideally, you show confidence by giving her a call when you wanna schedule a date, rather than texting her

This makes it easy to jump off the phone after setting the date

You want to always be giving her the illusion that you’re really busy and don’t have a lot of time for her

She will feel more special that you carved out time in your day to see her, if she feels like you’re always busy

She will also wonder about you more, and it will give you the mysterious edge she so desperately craves

You don’t have to be a bad boy or asshole

You just have to mimmick some of the traits of bad boys that make them successful with women

Go read the book I recommend asap. It will help you not blow it with the girl. I can guarantee with 99% certainty that if you follow the material in the book, you will be able to win her heart