So I am 32M, I havent had a GF since I was 17, did some minor dating into my 20s with no real success. I soent most of my 20s "not worrying" about it and just doing me. But recently, especially the last 5 or so years ive developed some sever depression around my being single. Ive tried almost every mainstream dating app there is, and ive always paid for premium services. I don't get any matches. Ive tried different pictures, ive looked up tips for profile i formation, I even had some of my female friends help me write profiles. Zero matches. Now I am 5'4, about 150lbs, average build. I have talked with Therapists, Psychiatrists, friends and family with little results. People seem to say I need more confidence, I personally think I am plenty confident, but anything short of just asking every single woman I see on the streets out, I am having a difficult time meeting women like they cant even get to the point of knowing who I am. I have recently joined some Meetup groups, but when it comes to anything i am even remotely interested in it either seems limited on women, or everyone seems to be already in a relationship/married, or gay, or not interested. I also joined a Larp community that had over a hundred people, I had zero luck and that was surprisingly diverse. I just am not sure what ti do and its bad I am always feeling lonely and theres only so much attention I can get from my friends.
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