Hello everyone,

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So, basically the title says it all. It seems like I keep attracting liars at this point. I go on dates, meet the man in question, we hit it off, they want to date, everything seems to be progressing naturally, and when I asked "what are we," I keep getting, "i am not ready, or "blah blah," but "we can still date/talk." I am not understanding why I keep attracting people who basically lie about what they want and switch once I begin to ask after they have been treating the connection like a relationship.

I am very upfront w/ what I want and expect. I am coming with no previous baggage etc, yet I keep getting people who want me around but do not want commit. What am I doing wrong?

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If it helps, I am 26 f and I have been told I am attractive (I don't believe it tbh, but that's another story).