I (20F) have struggled with dating apps since I joined them in the summer, and before that I used Reddit, because 1, I have to pay for premiums to see who liked me, and 2, I just don't find a whole lot of people. When I used to have them, I mostly checked out Bumble, Facebook Dating, and Hinge, but had a couple others like Tinder and a couple others that I didn't like. My standards aren't high: just someone who has similar goals to me, has similar hobbies, isn't religious, there's no height or weight requirements because I'm 5'7 and I'm plus sized (I'm just chubby) and it's hypocritical to say I want one thing when I am another but I also don't care about weight and height, I want someone who is okay with a feminist/independent sort of woman, is more left-leaning because I support and involved in the LGBTQIA community, is a mental health advocate, and stuff like that. I also don't look for hookups and I'm not poly, and I look for someone who is wanting kids and marriage at some point and I am pan, so I don't look specifically for men, women, etc. This is a little background about me so I can ask what kinds of apps would be best for me to try or continue with?

And if people suggest reddit to date on, what subreddits would be good and what advice would you give for posting on there especially for a F4F relationship?