I'm a gay dude and I've been dating a guy for a month now. He messages me almost everyday seemingly interested but he's never initiated a meetup. All past 4 dates was initiated by me. I asked him upfront if he still wanted to continue dating and he said yes and that we should see how things go.

But last time we met, I tried to cuddle him and he said he is uncomfortable with PDAs. But meanwhile, the first 3 dates, we had PDAs all the time. So this was such a drastic shift. I kept that at the back of my mind, since maybe he always hated PDAs but was only bold enough to tell me just now. We spent the next 5 hours together and we had a good time. I don't think someone who didn't like me would spend so much time with me right?

So I tried to make out with him that same night and he seemed a bit aloof but obliged. When I finally noticed the aloofness, I asked him what he wanted to do and he said "Go to sleep lol." So I left his house as that all but set the tone that he wasn't interested.

Then next day again, he texts me how is my day going and hope I'm doing great? Wtf, am I tripping?

Does this guy like me or not? He always accepts my dates, spends 5 to 6 hours with me each time and texts me every 2 ish days but his body language sometimes says something different. I'm not sure if I'm wasting my time here.