I struggle with social cues and interactions, so I need advice and maybe a little reality check. I work in receiving and shipping, which means part of my job is talking to delivery drivers. I think I hit it off with one guy (I never flirt on the job or really with anyone), we just cracked some jokes back and forth, talked about hobbies, where we live, and the pros/cons of long-hauling trucking.

I made him some coffee in my office cause unloading was taking a bit and the public coffee machine was giving him issues. I mentioned that my company needs more drivers and he said he would only consider the job if I make him coffee every day. We laughed and I agreed to make him coffee each day if it meant having another person to joke with at work. Then, when I told him the guy unloading his truck has to sign his paperwork and bring it out to him, he kept asking if I could do it instead.

After he walked out to his truck to check the unloading progress, he came back and rang the bell for assistance a few times just to chat with me. I kinda fucked up his coffee on accident, the machine spit out some grounds into his cup and I didn’t notice. He joked about the mouth full of coffee grounds and said I owe him lunch, I mentioned a place down the road while laughing and apologizing. A coworker walked into the office and asked for help, so the conversation stopped there.

We talked for over an hour total. It was easy going, laughing, smiling, and I truly got the impression he was flirting with me. I wish I put a sticky note with my number on his paperwork an brought it out to him, but I wasn’t sure if I was reading too much into everything and kept second guessing myself. Plus, stranger danger and all that. You don't really know a person, even though I had a good impression of him.

I have a number for his dispatch that also happens to be a friend of his. Would it be weird if I called him and asked him to pass on a message to the guy that likes extra coffee grounds in his coffee? How would I even word that? Would any of you guys think this is weird? I'm leaning towards letting it go. I don’t usually connect with people like this, so I’m just stuck in my own head and need some outside advice and perspective…..