24M here, just started dating a 21F a few days ago. We’ve known each other for a little over one month.

She is very inexperienced in relationships and intimate acts. Has only had one relationship for 1 month and the only thing they’ve done is a peck.

I started kissing her before we dated and she kept saying that there was something missing. So I decided to ask her and make it official, she said yes. She’s been more open to kissing and being affectionate ever since. However, last night, things were getting abit steamy and I made a move. She stopped and said she’s Catholic (which I know and she knows I’m agnostic) and that she doesn’t want to have sex before marriage. Whilst that is the case, I feel like she is selectively catholic, she believes in astrology, tarot cards, fate, karma and other things unassociated with catholicism.

She said she’s willing to help me, and actually went as far as giving me a blowjob. For me, sex is important and I’ve told her that. I’m not sure if she’s not ready, or because she’s catholic. Should I wait? And how long should I wait for?