So this guy I am kind of dating is 30. No kids. I’m 37. I will be 38 next august. He doesn’t have a great job. He’s very nice and very attentive. Everyday he makes sure I’m ok. He takes me out. Granted he uses coupons everywhere we go. Which my friends find odd and said he’s being a cheap skate. Only going where he has coupons to…. I prefer him having a better job but everything else is good. On the way to movies he grabs food on his own and never asks me to dinner. I usually grab food on my own and then go to the movie. This turns me off…. Is that shallow of me?…. To feel kind of like he’s trying at least to take me out but at the same time not to anyplace that doesn’t have a coupon and he won’t have dinner ?