So yeah, I'm posting again cause I'm just really lost (as you'll see what I'm talking about in a sec.

So earlier this semester I got dumped (it was a 10 month long relationship) but I was just straight up told on a piece of paper the following rules: no talking, texting, etc.

After I got over it, I downloaded Tinder and after about 3 weeks I got a match with someone from another University in my city about a 20 minute bus ride away. And tbh, I really think she's pretty and the type of person I'm looking for.

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We decided to share snaps (I mentioned exchanging numbers but she preferred snap, which I'm guessing she did to not just give her number out like that).

We went out on a more casual kind of date where I got us both Boba, I showed her around my school campus because I go to the top school in the nation for my major, and then I took her to a restaurant and then dropped her off at her friend's place where she wanted to go. And before dropping her off, she asked if we could kiss and I said yeah. So we kissed, I initiated a hug, and then we parted ways and we both said in person that we had fun and would go out again. During the date we found that we have A LOT in common, such as our hobbies, interests, music tastes, and vibes in general.

I also snapped her about when we want to go out and she said that she's not free the next weekend cause she's visiting friends but rather she's free the weekend after; so we've just been snapping back and forth and I haven't bugged her about it cause I don't want to be annoying. Ever since, she's been snapping me less frequently and I've been matching her energy so I don't come off as desperate. Either she's snapping me less frequently because she's not interested or because she's just giving space as to not get into the obsessive love trap and seem desperate as well.

Now keep in mind that this is my first time seeking a relationship this way - my past 3 relationships have been with people I already know and they've just happened, meaning I'm used to texting and snapping very frequently. But in this new situation, we're not really chatting 24/7, and I have this irrational fear that I'm gonna get ghosted.

Am I just overthinking stuff cause I'm in a new situation I've never been in? Also, from my description, does it look good for me?