Hello.

So I have been dating this guy for many months already. He's really great and amazing. Very insightful and caring. The way he cares for me and love me has been really different.

But of course he's not perfect and I'm not perfect. And currently, we are in a long distance relationship so communication can be tricky at times.

So my problem is, there are times when I could feel something is wrong because of the way he communicates with me (very dry and shuts the conversation) but he won't say what it is.

So how do I approach this kind of situation? How do you guys want to be approached?

Do we give you some space? For how long? Or do you want your woman to like keep on asking what's wrong while trying to be soothing and calm and sweet? Like asking what's wrong and give you hugs and coax you to telling what is hurting you?

Because I personally do not know where I should stand. I give the space yet he asks why can't I stay and be with him through it. I don't give the space but it will come of as being needy or pushy. So how do you guys want your woman to do it? Is it a mix of everything?