So I met this guy off of Facebook a few years ago and we have talked on and off since then. A year ago he asked me out on a date and now all of a sudden he doesn’t have “time” because he’s busy with his job and side business ventures. I know things can change but he’s very well aware of the fact that I want a serious relationship. He has said that he can’t give me what I want or need but that he does want to see me. We have hooked up several times in the past but now I have pulled away from that. Last week I told him he could come and hang out at my apartment but just platonically. I fall asleep and he’s touching me, asking if I want more. I said no and he stopped and it was late so he left because we were both tired. This was the first time I saw him in at least 2 months. That should tell him something right there. I drop all these hints and he still doesn’t get it. I know I’m partially at fault because I did still talk to him, up until I just blocked him and removed him from social media. He told me tonight that he’s “coming over and no excuses” I’m not sure what gives him the right to invite himself over. The only thing I liked that he did was that he sometimes told me to have a good day but I don’t think it’s fair that he’s taking advantage of what I’m actually looking for. He also sometimes got upset if I didn’t respond right away (like yesterday) and would just text me sometimes several times because I wouldn’t answer. I can also send him pictures of myself that I think are cute (and appropriate) and he will say something like show tits or butt! I even said last night that did he ever think maybe that’s why I don’t always respond. He didn’t like that.

I’m having doubts about how I’m feeling at the moment. Was this a “dodged bullet” moment? Or was it rude of me to block him? We are both in our early 30s so this is ridiculous.