I (32 f) have been dating this guy (32) for five months now, and at the beginning we both stated how we both weren’t looking for anything serious. I am a very busy single mom and he has two jobs, and we still find time for each other. Sunday he stated how much he missed me after not seeing me on our usual Friday/Saturday night dates. He’s not one to be very vocal about his feelings and it caught me off guard. Nonetheless we enjoyed our Sunday night. We don’t really see each other weekdays, but we did yesterday, Valentine’s Day. Was supposed to be a cute pitstop before he went home. We ended up having a two hour conversation about both of us admitting we both have stronger feelings for each other than we really thought we did. I wasn’t prepared for this conversation, I wasn’t even prepared for half the words that came out of my mouth. I didn’t know I liked him that much. I never thought I’d hear him say he would want a relationship with me. The thing is, there is an 90% chance he is moving to another country. He basically said him it’s up to me. That he wants a relationship, but he would understand if I said no due to the certainty of him leaving soon. But I don’t know what I want. I’ve kept him at bay from family and friends because I wasn’t looking for anything serious so it’s hard for me to seek advice from people close to me since no one really knows about him other than two people. Or maybe I just need to think out loud? I feel like the most obvious move, is to stop things where they are. Because he is not gone yet and I’m already sad that he will be one day. But when I think about not talking to him anymore, I get teary-eyed. Do I want to see where this can go knowing there’s an expiration date? I told him that maybe I needed some space to think things through, so we didn’t have our nightly phone call per usual. I still waited for his phone call, but instead of calling him I texted good night And he replied the same. And now I feel more lost than I did yesterday and have no idea what to do now.