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So as the title says, it’s ghosting story. But well from all the digging on reddit I haven’t heard of a story similar to this one so I decided to post about my specific situation.
But well around a year ago, I began dated someone who i trusted a lot and bonded a lot over the quarantine, I met her in 2020 in school. We spoke over the phone everyday but I wasn’t permitted to see her in person because of a lot of at risk people at my home at the time and wasn’t permitted to until I was fully vaccinated. But well it was alright I thought and had plans for whenever i could leave my house. But well she had issues of her own which was mentally detrimental to her and a break up came along a few months after since I just wanted what was best to her since she was also one of my best friends in a way. And even though I never got the chance to tell her this, I truly loved her.
So we were friends but i didn’t really mind because as long as I was talking to her, I was happy. She began being more distant though but I didn’t think too much since she was seeing a therapist. So the summer came and I saw her and it was great. I wanted to see her more but she began taking days or even a week to respond. She apologized a lot between the texts since she said she was getting her phone taken away since i was aware she had issues at home. Once again I didn’t mind as she kept asking to call me whenever she had time and wanted to plan a day out again. So i agreed but the day came and i didn’t receive a single text. Since planing the day, i haven’t heard from her from the end of July to the end of August.
So a month of no contact at all. She texts at the end and apologized saying she got grounded and kept saying she wanted to talk to me. I was of course kinda bitter but she responded by understanding and reminding me that she wants to talk to me. Then suddenly she stops texting me and as of today, that’s the last i heard from her. I texted numerous times, downloaded other apps that I didn’t have that i knew she used to text yet still nothing. I know she goes to university but nothing worked.
6 months later and I still feel exactly the same even though i know she may have forgotten all about me and I don’t know what to do. As a girlfriend, she meant a lot to me but she was precious to me a friend above all else. Nothing makes sense because every conclusion i came too contradicts itself. If she wanted to ghost me then why did she text back after a month and try to make plans? But what other conclusion is there to make besides her ghosting me? To know that even though she’s no longer in my world but she’s still out there tears me up on the inside and It’s the first thing i think of when i get up in the morning and the last thing i think of when i go to bed. She was the first girl that made me feel loved and this behavior makes no sense for someone i’ve known for 2 years and have spoken every day to since then. I’m practically in limbo and don’t know that to do because there’s so much hurt and questions still left.
TLDR: Ghosted by my ex who was my best friend. Situation doesn’t make sense and I do not how to process after 6 months since being ghosted.
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