I went on a date with a guy who 6'4" and is atleast twice my size. I like him and I could see myself with him for the long term. Sex is on the table and I'm ok with it. I'm attracted to him that way. I'm just confused as to how. I've never been with a big guy. I'm 5'5" and a size 6. I want it to be good but I'm worried. He's only been with 3 women his whole life (he's 54) so is that cuz he couldn't or did his size impact it? Just not sure what questions to ask or what happened?... He's really top heavy but has skinny legs kinda. So the groin area is impacted.... Any tips would be hella nice cuz I really like this guy. He could be the one that heals my broken heart.