I dont even mean approaching or talking to women that part in all honestly isnt that hard. It's just getting one to agree to a singular date. I have asked out both the friends that I've been into and people that I met fairly recently, but everytime i get the same answer, " You're a great guy, but..."

Cool, I'm a great guy thanks for telling me, but WTH is it that I'm missing? I had a friend who told me I am the most compassionate person they've ever met, which to me is frankly insane, right after she turned me down. Like I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like dating is becoming more and more of a lost cuase for me, purely out of disillusionment. I dont know how many times I have heard women tell me that any girl would be lucky to be with me. Which at this point I can only deduce as a lie. The only thing that I want in life is to make someone happy, and I cant even do that...

Rant over, but are any of you guys experiencing the same thing? If so how do you cope with it?