I am usually a reserved kinda person and don't talk much but when in mood i can be really talkative and extremely funny.

I can easily talk with new people and hold a conversation add humors here and there. Most of the time its just me listening and asking questions. Much easier if its just one o one.

anyway my main point is I can talk to everyone but the girl I AM ATTRACTED TO. like literally my mind went blank, I have nothing to say , too awkward, silence that feels like ages, where did that funny person go??...

And even if I talk and have conversation it feels like a forced one. it doesn't comes naturally. then after a while, i just start to ignore them. this is affecting my dating life. I am attracting girls I have zero interest in and ignoring the girls I actually like. how can I overcome this?

plus I am lesbian so it doesn't matter even If I am attracting random girls as most of them are straight and don't want to invest my time figuring out their sexuality when I am not even attracted to them in the first place.