So I'm a fairly young widow. Hubs had a heart attack and well that's that so I've started dating and I like what I like but it seems since the few years I was married (4.5) men and dating has changed.... a lot. I am looking for tips and advice.... And to be clear, I know there can never be another him and what we had. I'm looking to have better than what we had really. But I'm starting to lose hope.... Not gona get into it much but it is what it is. I want that excitement and passion and just that feeling of security again. It was cool just knowing he was there. Any advice will be considered and good advice will be taken. Shit advice will be promptly done and later regretted but atleast you know it was heard. Thanks.