I really would appreciate if we'll fit thin woman would answer this, and I'm sorry if this sounds shallow, I'm not shallow but I also have to ask the age old question...can a fat man like me hope to be with a beautiful woman with a healthy body? I've dated beautiful woman in the past, all of which were skinny while I was still big boned, which would mean my question is already answered right? Wrong...the common patter with all my ex's is that they have mental issues that played a huge part in them even giving me chance, as well as the reason for them breaking up with me and leaving me shattered. Now, I'm absolutely scared of approaching a skinny woman, cause of past trauma, i find myself back at square one wondering what I'm doing wrong? Was it all just bad luck disguised with a pretty face? Women..please give me hope.. please tell me that guys like me have a chance...and before anyone says it, no I'm not purposely staying fat, I'm Working on myself, been at the gym for the past two months now, went from 280lbs to 268lbs(thanks to my senpai though he keeps pushing me).