Hi All,

Hoping you all could chime in and give me advice/set me straight lol.

I met this guy around the end of December and from there we continued to text etc and made plans to meet this past Tuesday. I went over to his place we put together some furniture and we made out a bit and did some light touching. I didn’t rush into anything because he just had surgery the week prior. That same night we talked about meeting again and that we both had a good time and he didn’t want me to leave. Then the next day I text him good morning (Wednesday) and some others general stuff, he doesn’t answer at all. I wait and text him Thursday and he answers me 5-7 hours later. I don’t text him back until Friday afternoon and he texts back again about 5 hours later. I’m interested in seeing him again to see if this would work and I understand he just started a new job. I also won’t text him back today (Saturday) and will prolly hold off until Sunday and be like “I had a great time when we saw each other want to do it again this week?”. Or do you all suggest something else?

I try to move quick in these dating apps because I don’t want to waste time but I’m unsure if this dude is playing games or not interested.

Any advice would be great!