This is just my personal opinion, based on my experiences, but don't change yourself just to get a relationship. I've had been on both sides, long story short, didn't work. Always blew up in my face.

True self improvement is not the same thing, and requires time, hard work, and dedication. (Since I figure it is going to come up)

There are a lot of post here saying do this or do that, but life is not that simple. Some people agree, but not everyone. Everyone ask "should I do this" but no one ask "do I want to be with the kind of person who expects this?"

Instead of asking "will this attract someone?" shouldn't we be asking "will this attract the kind of person I'm looking for?"

Then again, what do I know. I'm not here because I'm living happily ever after. Sorry for the rant, and have a nice day.