First of all, thank you to everyone who responded! I really appreciate the diversity of those who responded, and how much it helps guys on improving themselves. Personally, I was quite interested in the priorities people had, and the pattern that appeared among their responses. To the person who said "Should be the same way for girls, no?", well, I intend to find out. I'm going to do a post for what guys look for in girls and note differences. Thank you all for your time, I hope you all find the relationship you are looking for :)

Here are the results from the "Top 5 qualities in a guy" poll. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jvqcxb/top_5_qualities_in_a_guy/

(How many people said it - quality)

21 - Humor

17 - Empathetic/Kind

11 - Honest

10 - Loyal

10 - Driven / Ambitious

9 - Attractive

7 - Respectful

7 - Intelligent

6 - Communicates well

6 - Passionate about a hobby

5 - Open minded

5 - Conversationalist

5 - Loving

4 - Confident

4 - Emotionally intelligent

4 - Mature

3 - Good hygiene

3 - Passionate

3 - Goofy/silly

3 - Similar interests

2 - Patient

2 - Can cook

2 - Independent

2 - Tall

2 - Well dressed

2 - Jack of all trades

2 - Good with babies

1 - Athletic

1 - Good hugger

1 - Hairy

1 - Playful

1 - Protective

1 - Adventurous

1 - Interesting

1 - Gentleman

1 - Wealthy / High social status

1 - Dick size