Update from http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hzo8v/met_a_girl_and_i_suck_at_this/

So one month has passed, I would like to thank you all for the advice I got, It really helped. I slowed down quite a bit and we didn't talk for a while, partly because she went on a trip abroad for a week, and I was away with friends at the same time.

And then like 2 days after she got home, I sent her a text asking her if she made it back ok, to which she replied.

And then after a week we met again. She recently moved (actually lives like 200 meters from me now) so we went on a date once she was settled in to her new place.

Had an awesome date, with dinner and then a walk by the water where we sat down and listened to some music, we kissed and just sat there for about 3 hours.

Then I texted her the next day just to tell her about this childrens program she had talked about the day before, she said she watched it when she was a kid, but no one never seem to have heard about it (including me, even though we are roughly the same age, me 26 she 28). Anyways I told her that I found the program online and that I downloaded all the episodes for her, so the following day she came over and we watched a couple of episodes and she spent the night.

The rest is history I guess, she was here for 18 straight hours on friday/saturday, and we go for walks like every other day or so.

Writing mostly because it just feels good to get it out. But also to thank everyone who came with advice, I really appriciated that.