Hello all,

I [M21] recently got into a relationship with a girl [F19] who goes to my college. Now, she knows that I watch porn and is okay with it. However, sometimes I go into chat rooms to share porn with other guys. It’s always anonymous and isn’t one-on-one. I don’t hit on/talk dirty with the other guys, there is no emotional connection, I don’t send any pics of myself or receive pics of the other guys, and I have never done anything in-person. But I’m still not sure if it’s cheating to be sharing porn back and forth/commenting on the porn. But I also don’t know how different this is from just commenting on porn subreddits. Please let me know your thoughts/if you think I’m an asshole.

Edit: I don’t do this anymore, but before we started dating I would go into cam rooms where other guys would oftentimes be naked and doing their thing. Would going back into those can rooms be cheating? I would not be going on cam myself.