So I've had a crush on a friend of mine I met through social sports, which we still play weekly together. I've never really done anything about it because I never thought she would reciprocate the interest. Recently we've matched on dating apps and have the odd joke about it and are open about how we are single and looking for someone. The confusing part is that in person she seems like she is interested in me, I can pick up on a few of what I think are subtle hints. But over text she never initiates, and the conversations are quite trivial and don't last long even after I press for more information and try get a conversation going. In person it's very different, she doesn't stop talking and we can talk for a long time.

So I finally worked up the courage to ask her out for something to eat or drinks this weekend, after taking advice from this sub. I thought I'd never know until I asked, and I didn't want to die wondering. She said she was a bit busy and would let me know tomorrow (yesterday). She didn't get back to me yesterday, and I get that people are busy, but if you are interested in someone, wouldn't you make the time to message them?

I'm getting mixed signals and have no idea if she is interested or not.