Why do I keep attracting men who are not as committed as I am?

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I’ve always been in relationships with or even just short term things with guys who are an avoidant type. When I’m with them, it’s great, sex is great, and I feel close and we laugh and enjoy each other’s company. But when they’re gone it’s almost like I don’t exist.

I am so done with this cycle but it is so hard to break sometimes. Like I find myself coming back to them. Anyone have advice?

Also I have a confidence/self esteem problem and I know that, so help with that would be great too lol.

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