She believed that 3/5 could go to 5/5 with time. I, however, wasn’t sure. I’m an average man[33]. I make a decent living and have generally all good habits that you’d read of if you google “best modern habits to keep”. She’s the same. Dating for both of us has been a rather tough affair. I however don’t see that as a reason to hope of a 3/5 turning into a 5/5. Now I know it’s insane to expect everything to be perfect- I’ve had some relationships in the past that just felt right but fell apart eventually, unfortunately. Have you guys been in something like this? What did you do?

EDIT: By 3/5 I simply mean on a scale of 5 how excited we feel about it. Just like a doctor would ask on a scale of 10 how much pain you feel.