I see some victory posts on here and I feel like mine qualifies. Gonna from being anxiety ridden and exclusively using dating apps to now I just kinda live my life and use the apps if I happen to have some time to kill.

The victory was on Tuesday. Was a girl I work with who is new, thought she was attractive and we vibed ok, asked to work out with her because I have been needing to start that habit up again and wanted to see if she was someone I was actually interested in. By the end of the workout I had decided I was. Old me would have just obsessed and gone home, instead I just asked her if she wanted to go on a date sometime! She said yes, but that she's been super busy since she just started at my place and has debt to pay off from school. Whether that is an excuse (some girls have used that in the past, not fun learning that 🙃) or she's genuinely busy (I friggin hope so) I'm just playing it casual. Haven't put more pressure but still making my presence known 😁