So i met this girl through my job, and we didnt hit it off all to well. She listened to all the gossip from other chicks at work, and they were basically saying stay away from me. I dont know why. But after a while we talked a few times, tested the waters. We found out we actually really liked being around each other. She found out i was attracted to her through a friend and basically told him that she wouldnt date inside her workplace. Fair. Now here comes the fuck up. I told her fuck it, seems like you really need a friend, ill be here for you as a friend. Second fuck up, i stayed over at her house because hurricane florence was supposed to fuck our area up. I stayed there for three days. In those three days i realized how much i actually liked this chick. Her laugh, her sense of humor, the way she carries herself, how clean she keeps her home. I was really diggin it and started having feelings. All the while she’s trying to have a relationship with my best dude friend, and im trying to help her obtain that. So now im here stuck listening to her dote over my buddy, hurting because she doesnt feel that for me. So i decided, tomorrow im going to tell her how i feel, and how fucked this whole situation is. Im going to tell her i need some space to get my friend mentality back, because she is a really good friend, but secretly i really want that .2% chance of her saying she feels the same way to happen. Either way i think this is the best option for the whole situation. Im open to suggestions and perspective though.