Hi guys,

I recently wrote a blog post which explains my problem about the pick-up community.

In my experience, I found that pick-up has made me more insecure and more socially anxious. And I am wondering if that may be the case with other people as well.

A lot of the pick-up techniques in my opinion are pretty sleazy. And I don't think they form the basis of a meaningful connection. I think most of the pick-up techniques are just far out manipulation.

Luckily I found that by having respect for myself and striving to become a better version of myself, I find that I can have more meaningful connections as well.

And another thing.. With pick-up, I realised that we are too focused on the outcome. Whether that's getting the girl's number or getting laid. We tend to forget that we are talking to human, not an object.

I like to know your views on this topic.

If you like to read my blog post, please check out the link below:

http://www.mistry-writer.com/my-problem-with-pickup/

Thank you!