I met this guy at a bar. he asked me out. i really enjoyed the first date, he held eye contact the whole time and seemed really interested and i was very intrigued by him. he didnt seem to want to text inbetween dates.

date 2 was my idea to go paddleboarding we spent hours talking and talking and talking. this is where he told me he tends to jump into things and wants to take things slow. now back to his house where he kissed me. i was expecting a sweet short kiss since that was the tone all day but he kissed me with so much passion i couldnt help myself and we slept together.

third date he invites me over and as soon as i get there he needs to take a shower and invites me to join, i get the passionate kiss again and fold. i was hoping for an evening of seduction again but it went right to sex. advice for the future- what can i say to be coy and cute and get out of sex the minute i walk in the door?

ive acknowledged how much i enjoy him, hes just as enthusiastic but i cant tell if he speaking of a possible emotional connection or just physical

i dont know how to date i just got out of a marriage to my highschool sweetheart so i really dont know what im doing and would so appreciate any advice