Hey /r/Dating_Advice this is my first post here but thought I might give it a shot. So let me start off by saying I met this girl at a concert awhile ago and hung out with her maybe 3-4 times. Went to her party 2 days later and had a great time I helped her clean up and everything and she kissed me the previous night. We got breakfast that morning and had a pretty chill time. I have been snap chatting her occasionally but she seems to becoming disinterested. We both had to leave for 3 weeks for trips. I just got her a present while on my vacation just some $20 dollar earrings that I thought she might like. And sent her a picture of a box saying "Hey I got you something!" Now i'm wandering if she thinks i'm getting kinda creepy or if I came on too strong. What is my next best option? Not say anything until we both get back and throw a party seemed like the best way to continue(in my mind). But I have never actually been this interested in a girl, i'm pretty used to the whole hook-up thing just never emotionally been this intrigued. Thanks and I hope you guys can give me some ideas!