Hey all. I’m 30 M dating in the city. I am very confused about communication via text. So It usually starts on a dating app messaging back and forth and then we move on to texting. I’m a better caller than I am a texter so I suggest a call that same night if I feel like the girl is open to it. This has happened once and then we’ve gone out on a date the next morning. Great right?

But for the ones that I try getting to know through out the day via text I seem to get ghosted often. I try and respond when I can and it’s usually within an hour or a few. I genuinely try to get to know them and try not asking too many questions. I thought girls like when a guy responds back quick??? Is that too fast? Is there such thing as a bad texter? What are things that I may be doing wrong? Am I overwhelming them like I’m doing to you with these questions??

I assume that it’s either fraudulent people or girls who are not straight up with their intentions and communicate in code? Please, I’m going insane getting my hopes up and then getting ghosted.