Hey guys I hope some people would be able to see this post and respond to it as I know this sub has people older than me and probably more experienced.

In context I’m 22(M) and while I know a lot of men complain about getting likes or matching people on dating apps that hasn’t really been the case for me as I don’t have that issue but o used to be in that boat so I know how it feels.

My problem as of the moment isn’t that I feel like since I put myself out there after my ex left it’s been a shit storm.

• I’ve had plans to meet people and have been ghosted.

• I’ve had people ghost a day before the date.

*Ive had people ghost after the date.

*Ive had people that just want to hookup and after I’ve slept with them radio silence on their end.

*Ive met people with severe communication issues that will only let me do all the work texting, setting up plans etc. I’ve had people with unresolved trauma still out there looking for connections only to tell you they are not over an ex when things get serious.

Going from someone who didn’t get much likes on the apps to someone who is regularly getting likes I wasn’t really expecting this and I’m kind of surprised with it all.

Some days I find myself questioning if I’m the problem in all of this? At a point I had to take a break for two weeks after a very bad date as it trashed my self confidence.

What I’m asking for is any advice from any perspective male or female I’ll take any. My friend has told me to get off the apps and forget about dating and I’ve been thinking about doing this cause I have honestly given up.

Any advice would be appreciated.