So I 19M matched with this girl 18f on Bumble about 6 weeks ago. She initiated the conversation by complimenting my hair.

Our first date went really well, she initially said that she wouldn’t be able to stay out for very long because she had somewhere to be that evening, but we ended up just talking at a nice bar for 6 hours straight. We really hit it off and only split ways at midnight so we could both get home in time.

Second date went great too, we went to a cool art exhibition and ended the night with going for drinks again, then going for a walk together (holding hands). At the pub we were having a moment, but then she said she was new to this and would like to take things slow so she’d be sure not to regret doing anything (kissing)

Third date went great too, we went to see Wicked (she loves musicals) and again really hit it off, although we still didn’t kiss or none of that.

Every day we text each other a lot. We often talk for hours on end in the evening and really seem to like each other. When she’s feeling down or stressed I’m the first person she texts and I always comfort her in those times.

Just now, she said ‘you’re so nice, I don’t understand how you don’t have a girlfriend’. This was a real punch in the gut for me because we both deleted Bumble about 2 weeks ago. Her Bumble profile did say she was looking for small casual dates, but I’m so confused about everything now.

The thing is, we have upcoming valentines day plans and have small gifts for each other.

Could someone please tell me what’s going on? Maybe a girls opinion would be nice to hear too.