I(20F) and my bf(22M) have been dating for 6 months. My bf loves me alot and is very extrovert. I am very introvert. His ex gf is in same college as us and she is very extroverted as well. Participates in almost everything. Yesterday she performed a solo dance for a competition. And when i saw hee i felt like i lacked a lot. I dont participate in anything, and im just an average at everything. Sometimes i feel like maybe my bf and his ex vibed better and maybe he finds me too boring. He told me you should also participate in stuff like this. But i just cant.. i do have an urge to do so.. but my introvert self cant. And it makes me feel really bad about myself and i feel uglier every time i see her. What do i do