So I met him after slightly revealing about my feelings for him but he wasn’t ready for any real relationship (to become bf/gf) and told me he doesn’t have that strong feelings as I think he might have. I said okay, then I can’t be dating someone who doesn’t have feelings for me anymore who is very inconsistent in communication although I understand all the hardships he is going through (he wasn’t lying about them tho). I told him I can offer to be his friend if he need. He’s quite an avoidant who already cut some of his connections including friends.

So lastly he texted he would need some time to sort through his feelings and where he stands & that he doesn’t want to make any decisions without being sure of what he feels.

He previously said he likes me and now that his interest was more in the beginning and now losing it. So I thought he felt nothing towards me, why is he sorting thru and why he said he needs time to see where he stands or how he feels.

Do you think he’s feeling difficult even to reject me as a friend or realizing he might actually have feelings for me? I don’t really know what a man thinking when he said like this.