I’m a white/latina female in my 30’s. I grew up in the hood, dealing with thugs and fuck boys thru college and beyond. After dating a supreme narcissist (clinically diagnosed) in my late 20’s, I started on the journey to date “decent men”. I met my ex husband randomly and he was the first genuinely wholesome guy I’d dated. But from Peru (I’m American citizen). Fell in love, moved to Texas to be near his family (totally separated from my Florida people). But after a year of marriage, became very apparent I’m just being used for citizenship. Whatever ok, we’re separated abs I want my own real life… Living in Texas, I meet a cute 27 yr Mexican American guy off Reddit. Insta attraction, never stopped seeing each other from day one. 2 years later, we’re 1 year dating seriously. I find out he has been cheating on me from the from the get: he’s an uber driver so lots of uber random fucks plus Reddit hotwife hookups. When I found out, I cut it off. But suddenly he’s desperate to fix it. Full transparency, wants to fix us. Cuz I’m sane, I’m real and I get it. But also I’m finally adjusting my life to be healthy andc loved. But i recently noticed he has a telegram acct and a signal acct. haven’t told him i know yet. Should i converting or just dip at this point? Like what’s the point right? FYI I logged into both due to looking for a weed hookup given to me by a friend but he is clean af no drugs. So.., Guys, just be honest w me; should I just cut it and leave? I’m tired of wondering what’s I appropriate with social media Ava what’s not. Le sigh